Just in case anyone reads this who doesn’t fully understand the situation.
Only Daisy is in charge of what does and doesn’t happen with Josh. She has residency and she is the parent here with parental responsibility. I am only the granddad. I am very proud of that title but I do not have any choice over any decisions Daisy makes with regard to Josh and neither does anyone else in the family.
I can certainly give my opinion to anyone, if asked, but that’s as far as it goes. I am not and don’t want to be in a position where I have to tell anyone what they should or will do. I very much like being a grandparent. I have done the dad thing.
If I can suggest anything it is this, can all issues relating to parenting be relayed to parents. Any non parenting things, I am happy to talk about. Anyone wants to contact me to have a moan, to talk to someone else, pass a message on, don’t go there!
Obviously this would be mainly directed at James but, it equally applies to anyone else thinking wrongly at the moment because it isn’t just James!