Author: Steve Antipolo

I have just had a really enjoyable week with a friend of mine. It was nice to have company on equal terms with no complications, just relaxed.

We went out a couple of times but nowhere to far, had nothing too boring just enjoyed each others’ company.

Sadly, we were stuck in a little more than I would have liked but we managed to entertain ourselves, plenty to do, talk about … even managed to get some use out of the Xbox for a change!

Charlie made a visit the other day too which was enjoyable and unexpected though I suspect I didn’t pay him enough attention, not as much as I should of anyway.

Jermaine has not been very good this week. He has just sat and stared a lot of the time, no life at all really. Today he has taken to removing his trousers and pants and going naked, can’t say that is any fun either and he is also getting in the habit of being doubly incontinent which gives me the sort of clearing up I would also rather not have.

Nothing yet planned for the weekend though I have set Matt up to baby-sit for me. Hopefully I can gatecrash on some friends, I’d really like that.

Totally forgot my login details for this thing for a few days which was a right pain but here I am back again!

I was meant to be going to a meeting of the Motor Neurone Disease lot in the afternoon on Sunday but Daisy announced that her friend was coming around and he had epilepsy and really, an adult should be around so I cancelled. Then, when it was too late, she said he had called earlier to say he couldn’t make it! Oh well, it taught me a valuable lesson, I cannot afford to agree to do voluntary work that includes weekends at all.

Called MND this morning and told them that unless they could come up with something that involved daytimes during weekdays and also looked good on my CV that I was sorry, I couldn’t help them.

Cleaned the car yesterday and before I had a chance to drive it today a bird had already shat on the windscreen!

Coloured Matt’s hair earlier. It is not blonde as it should have been but rather orange which, as it happens, works quite well on him!

Dj started her periods today and I had to break the news to her that this does not mean that every 28 days he gets time off school!

Have a friend due here soon and really looking forward to it. It would have been better if we could have gone somewhere this evening but such is life I guess, we shall do something tomorrow.

Totally forgot my login details for this thing for a few days which was a right pain but here I am back again!

I was meant to be going to a meeting of the Motor Neurone Disease lot in the afternoon on Sunday but Daisy announced that her friend was coming around and he had epilepsy and really, an adult should be around so I cancelled. Then, when it was too late, she said he had called earlier to say he couldn’t make it! Oh well, it taught me a valuable lesson, I cannot afford to agree to do voluntary work that includes weekends at all.

Called MND this morning and told them that unless they could come up with something that involved daytimes during weekdays and also looked good on my CV that I was sorry, I couldn’t help them.

Cleaned the car yesterday and before I had a chance to drive it today a bird had already shat on the windscreen!

Coloured Matt’s hair earlier. It is not blonde as it should have been but rather orange which, as it happens, works quite well on him!

Dj started her periods today and I had to break the news to her that this does not mean that every 28 days he gets time off school!

Have a friend due here soon and really looking forward to it. It would have been better if we could have gone somewhere this evening but such is life I guess, we shall do something tomorrow.

Maybe driving all over the south east is not the best way to start a weekend! Right now I feel totally shattered.

Of course, not going to bed the same day I get up is also not a good thing two nights in a row!

Went to Kudos in London yesterday and met a guy from Thailand called ‘Porn’, yes, really his name. He was very cute but his ex boyfriend showed up and was totally obnoxious and I don’t need that sort of shit so I made my excuses and left. From there I drove down to Eastbourne to meet someone else.

He really is a lovely man and he seemed quite taken with me. Had an enjoyable few hours chat and retired to bed very late indeed. Sadly, a relationship is never going to happen there. Factors that play a part in that are, mainly distance, very high up also is that he smokes which is fine, not complaining but I just couldn’t have a relationship with someone that smokes. As well as that, well, it was really fun but no fireworks, it was more comfortable than explosive and that isn’t a complaint, just an honest observation of how it was. I am sure I shall visit again though, I also have to remember that I have loads of friends and have been neglecting too many of them this past year or so and will have to make a better effort.