HWA

… Taking a chance on … OK, not love but the police getting it right this time.

The officer earlier asked how we wanted to play it. Did we want him to go arrest the guy that broke down our fence or did we want to drop it altogether?

Me and the kids spoke about it for a while and decided the best thing to do was to have the officer go pay the guy a visit and tell him bluntly that he (the officer) wanted to arrest him but that we had asked him not to in the hope that he’d (the guy that did the fence in) understand we didn’t want to make things worse and maybe he could just show some respect in the future?

Thing is, we are talking about chavs here and they don’t have logical brains. My guess is that the chav will tell his chavvy mates and then we’ll get even more grief, such is life. Simply doing the right thing these days seems not to be an option.

Daisy is seeing her mum right now. She cancelled, that is, Daisy cancelled her allowed visit with mum for next week but naturally enough wanted the crap gifts Kris has got her for her birthday.

Kris has not put herself out in any way, hell, when we were down town she was reluctant even to take a break from her shopping schedule to go meet Daisy, it’s just so maddening.

I am quite tired and think I may well go have a lay down, it is my day off after all so I should be allowed that!

… Taking a chance on … OK, not love but the police getting it right this time.

The officer earlier asked how we wanted to play it. Did we want him to go arrest the guy that broke down our fence or did we want to drop it altogether?

Me and the kids spoke about it for a while and decided the best thing to do was to have the officer go pay the guy a visit and tell him bluntly that he (the officer) wanted to arrest him but that we had asked him not to in the hope that he’d (the guy that did the fence in) understand we didn’t want to make things worse and maybe he could just show some respect in the future?

Thing is, we are talking about chavs here and they don’t have logical brains. My guess is that the chav will tell his chavvy mates and then we’ll get even more grief, such is life. Simply doing the right thing these days seems not to be an option.

Daisy is seeing her mum right now. She cancelled, that is, Daisy cancelled her allowed visit with mum for next week but naturally enough wanted the crap gifts Kris has got her for her birthday.

Kris has not put herself out in any way, hell, when we were down town she was reluctant even to take a break from her shopping schedule to go meet Daisy, it’s just so maddening.

I am quite tired and think I may well go have a lay down, it is my day off after all so I should be allowed that!

Visted a care home in Kettering earlier for the second time. My previous visit didn’t show it in a good light and the timing was all wrong.

It worked out OK today and I have decided to get things moving to have Jermaine transferred there ASAP.

I was also able to get some things clarified with the PCT to get them to understand there needs to be more clarity over the financing arrangements so that I can manage Jermaine’s money better, they agreed to do this more in the future.

I made an appointment earlier to get ‘power of attorney’ over Jermaine, this should ensure no one can cut me out of the loop with regard to his care and that I can also easily act on his behalf. In other words, restoring my status as his dad and I really feel quite good about that to know I can still play an active role in his future.

Hopefully gave Nick some last minute advice with regard to his move and financing it. I suspect it’ll be put off but hopefully he’ll realise before it is too late that if he wants control over it and the ability to get the right place, he needs to have no delays.

I am so looking forward to Gran Canaria. I found out today that one of my friends from Northampton is going to be there the first week (Andy) so hopefully can meet up at some point and catch up seeing as we have not seen each other for months what with him working down in London. I can probably arrange to meet him whilst Martyn is off doing his thing on the Thursday or something unless Martyn would like to meet him as well, I just can’t remember if they have met but think so.

I meant to speak to Robbie this evening but got back way too late and I am getting a little tired myself, sorry Robin.

I have the weekend off from chores … yeah, like that is going to happen!

Visted a care home in Kettering earlier for the second time. My previous visit didn’t show it in a good light and the timing was all wrong.

It worked out OK today and I have decided to get things moving to have Jermaine transferred there ASAP.

I was also able to get some things clarified with the PCT to get them to understand there needs to be more clarity over the financing arrangements so that I can manage Jermaine’s money better, they agreed to do this more in the future.

I made an appointment earlier to get ‘power of attorney’ over Jermaine, this should ensure no one can cut me out of the loop with regard to his care and that I can also easily act on his behalf. In other words, restoring my status as his dad and I really feel quite good about that to know I can still play an active role in his future.

Hopefully gave Nick some last minute advice with regard to his move and financing it. I suspect it’ll be put off but hopefully he’ll realise before it is too late that if he wants control over it and the ability to get the right place, he needs to have no delays.

I am so looking forward to Gran Canaria. I found out today that one of my friends from Northampton is going to be there the first week (Andy) so hopefully can meet up at some point and catch up seeing as we have not seen each other for months what with him working down in London. I can probably arrange to meet him whilst Martyn is off doing his thing on the Thursday or something unless Martyn would like to meet him as well, I just can’t remember if they have met but think so.

I meant to speak to Robbie this evening but got back way too late and I am getting a little tired myself, sorry Robin.

I have the weekend off from chores … yeah, like that is going to happen!